If you choose divorce, the aftermath of leaving a high conflict individual can be harder than being married to one. They will do everything in their power to make sure you have nothing and no one. They might take all the money away (if they haven't already done so). They might attempt a smear campaign that gets your family and friends and their family to tear you down with lies and manipulation. 

But the hardest part in all this is the children. Your ex may use them as pawns to fight against you. They may use the Family Court to make the process as long and costly as possible. They may claim that you're guilty of "parental alienation" and that you've turned the kids against them. And the courts aren't trained to handle it. They think being neutral means 50/50 custody.

Together, we can educate the courts, your attorney, and your family and hopefully minimize the damage on you and the kids. We'll work on healthy co-parenting tips as we develop a strong strategic plan. Implementing a strong  documention system and communication protocols to help prepare you so you can remain calm and focused. 

You're divorced but yet it's still happening not much has changed. He continues to stalk and harass you and the emails and communication are still difficult. Check out the Post Separation Abuse Wheel. Together, we can identify and combat the abuse.

You may also be experiencing PTSD. Being in a relationship with a high conflict individual takes a toll on your mind and body. Together, we will use Trauma Based Yoga and health professionals (like therapists and psychiatrists) to heal.

At the High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification Program, our coaches are trained in post separation abuse and many have personally experienced it themselves. We understand that it only takes one person to create a high-conflict divorce or child custody battle. We are survivors helping survivors.

We believe survivors.